Thank you, God, for the reminder to be present to cherish the people right in front of me. I got to ride up to western North Carolina with PPBJ, see GJ, catch up on friends' lives, and make new friends this weekend. We hiked a trail in the Great Smoky Mountains National Park and swam … Continue reading Cataloochee cabin
for good. I feel lower than whale sh!t. How could I hurt Darrell? He is so loving and generous and perhaps the most open-hearted and honest person I know when it comes to his feelings. He said everything with no pretention."You're the best thing that's ever happened to me. I wanted this to work out, which is … Continue reading I broke up with Darrell
I met Mo out at Kings Barcade for The Love Language show tonight. She brought Margaret and Alex. Later, Joe showed up Steve. I was hoping he wouldn't show, since I love The Love Language, but that's the extent to which I don't factor into his decisions. He looked so adorable. When I see Steve, … Continue reading Raleigh is too small.
you lost him, and it hurts. i hope this helps you through your heartbreak. some takeaways from losing the person you love: you feel pain because you love someone deeply. find solace in that. you are not incurably ambivalent and you know that now. you're alive and you know it, because your heart is broken. … Continue reading the upside of losing love
The list is getting longer, as I'm getting older. Not a good trend. empathetic kind considerate - e.g., waits for others to order their meal; asks if I need anything smart funny, witty curious grateful honest and open - shares without being asked excellent communicator feminist - loves women for their uniqueness and individuality, not … Continue reading The manly laundry list 3.0
I send you in this email a suit of "virtual emotional armor." You will gird yourself with this emotional armor and thus protected will conduct yourself courageously as you take the necessary steps required to forge a new life. You will emerge on the other side of this trial safe, sound and very self-assured.